Never ever give up on something worth the wait.

There are moments in our life when we fail. There are moments when we feel pain. There are moments when we suffer. There are moments when we feel angry. There are moments when other people hurt us with what they do. There are moments when we lose our patience. There are moments when we lose our chances. There are moments when we lose our confidence. There are moments when we regret. There are moments when we feel confused. There are moments when we feel weak. There are moments when we feel alone. There are moments when we want to give up.

In our life, those things I mentioned  above are not easily avoided. They will try to test you. They will try to challenge you. They will try to bring you down. They will try to make your life miserable. They will try to convince you that it is time to give up and let it go.

Are you up for the challenge? Are you going to continue fighting? Are you willing to continue? Are you prepared for the worst? Are you ready? Can you handle it alone? Now those are the questions.

Everybody in this world gets hurt. Especially when it comes to love. And you can't argue with me, agree? That's because some people are confused with what they feel. Some people can't accept their feelings. Some people pretend to love. Some people are afraid to love. Some people intend to fast track everthing. Some people are not ready for a relationship. But what they don't know is that they are actually hurting the feelings of another person.

In a relationship, sacrifices, trust, commitment, acceptance, openness and the like are needed for a successful relationship. Some people are confused with what they feel as I said just now. Don't push yourself, give time, think about it and when you are ready face it. Some I said are afraid to love again. Well, I can't blame you guys. It will indeed take time for that scar to heal. However, all I can say is that don't let fear take you away from your happiness, fight it. Be happy, be strong and be willing to open your heart again. It doesn't end there. And to other people who isn't ready for a relationship yet, like me hahahaha. Don't be so hard on yourself. Don't be jealous with your friends who are in a relationship. Trust me that there is a right time for that. Besides if you are still young, then why not enjoy being young and free. No, don't tell me that no one loves you. You still have your parents and your friends who are always there for you during your darkest and brightest hour and who loves you because of who you are.

Always remember, when you love someone, don't give up on them that easily. It might take a long time but whatever happens make them feel that they are worth the wait. Because there are many things in this world that is indeed worth fighting for. Some people say that it is hard to wait around for something you know might never happen. But remember that it is harder to give up when you know its everthing you want. Be there for them. However, be gentle, dont rush things up. After all, love is a slow dance.

Whatever happens, whatever challenges you face, whatever pain, suffering and anger you feel and whatever life gives you. Always remember to be strong because strong walls shake but never collapse. It is not going to be easy, it is going to be worth it. Keep in mind that when life gives you something that makes you feel afraid, that is actually when life gives you a chance to be brave. Believe that in your journey, you are not alone. God is always there for you to give his hand when you fall. Trust in him and ask for his wisdom and guidance. Lastly, never give up and just keep fighting because your journey doesn't end here yet.

Thank you very much to all my readers and to the person who requested this. Hahaha you know who you are. Hope you like it. God bless to everyone.

Yours FAITHFULLY,
Dr.J

Defining Happiness

What is happiness? What does it mean to be happy? Well it seems these questions are those questions that no one knows the answer to. However, I am determined to find it. So what do you think is happiness? Of course there will always be a simple, boring response that any scientist can tell you. Happiness is an experience that we know happens when there are certain levels of different chemicals in our brains. These chemicals trigger a response somewhere in our nervous system, and we feel what we call "happy." Unfortunately, that still doesn't answer us. That only tells us what happens, but that is not enough. Some would say that happiness is something that lies in the deepest parts of our bodies. It resides in all of us but not everyone acknowledges this.

Well one of the ways to find the definition of happiness is to find out what makes us happy. Well it could be anything. It could be an activity we enjoy, or maybe a person who you value the most. Anything we do, we see can make us happy. Knowing what makes us happy put us at least one step closer to knowing why, and what happiness really means.

Happiness is indeed something that we cannot buy or sell. In my own experience, I never saw a store which sells happiness. And if there will be such store, then I guess everbody in this world are happy, agree? Maybe you might say that expensive items like jewelry, luxury houses, sports car, money are the happiness of any person. That is not true and will never will be true. That is not real happiness.

Real happiness is when you are contented on what you have, when you learn to love and care for someone, being positive and throwing away the negative, being yourself and not someone else, being a great person and setting an example to others, being a servant and at the same time a leader, being generous and helping the people in need, being a person who respects others, being a child of your parents, being a friend to others and the like.

Be happy, for there are many reasons in this world to be happy. Be happy because you can see the sun shines every morning and sets every night. Be happy because you can feel the wind. Be happy because you can still eat and taste various types of food. Be happy because you can walk and run. Be happy because you can read and write. Be happy because you have a family and friends that loves you. Be happy because you are alive and well.

Some people would ask me, "How to be happy?" And I would just reply, "Everyone has their own happiness, you just have to find it." Believe in me when I say that. As I said earlier, anything we do, anything we see can make us happy. Find it, only you can find it and only you can feel it. It is around you somewhere. Don't waste time looking at the past, you won't find your happiness there. Instead look forward at the future ahead of you. So be alert, for I don't want you to miss it. Be patient and don't give up. And I guess soon you will find what will make you happy.

At the end of the day, we can't define the meaning of happiness in words. Because only you can define it to yourself, only you can figure it out and only you can feel it. Let all of us be happy and remember that happiness is just around the corner. So go out. Go find what makes you happy. We all have the right to be happy. Lastly, be happy not because everyone else is doing it, but because it is the best thing that there is something to do.

Thank you my friends for reading my blog, I really appreciate it. Thank you for giving me the inspiration again Mr. Lance. Hahaha God bless to everyone.....

Yours FAITHFULLY,
Dr. J