Sunday 13 April 2014

Never ever give up on something worth the wait.

There are moments in our life when we fail. There are moments when we feel pain. There are moments when we suffer. There are moments when we feel angry. There are moments when other people hurt us with what they do. There are moments when we lose our patience. There are moments when we lose our chances. There are moments when we lose our confidence. There are moments when we regret. There are moments when we feel confused. There are moments when we feel weak. There are moments when we feel alone. There are moments when we want to give up.

In our life, those things I mentioned  above are not easily avoided. They will try to test you. They will try to challenge you. They will try to bring you down. They will try to make your life miserable. They will try to convince you that it is time to give up and let it go.

Are you up for the challenge? Are you going to continue fighting? Are you willing to continue? Are you prepared for the worst? Are you ready? Can you handle it alone? Now those are the questions.

Everybody in this world gets hurt. Especially when it comes to love. And you can't argue with me, agree? That's because some people are confused with what they feel. Some people can't accept their feelings. Some people pretend to love. Some people are afraid to love. Some people intend to fast track everthing. Some people are not ready for a relationship. But what they don't know is that they are actually hurting the feelings of another person.

In a relationship, sacrifices, trust, commitment, acceptance, openness and the like are needed for a successful relationship. Some people are confused with what they feel as I said just now. Don't push yourself, give time, think about it and when you are ready face it. Some I said are afraid to love again. Well, I can't blame you guys. It will indeed take time for that scar to heal. However, all I can say is that don't let fear take you away from your happiness, fight it. Be happy, be strong and be willing to open your heart again. It doesn't end there. And to other people who isn't ready for a relationship yet, like me hahahaha. Don't be so hard on yourself. Don't be jealous with your friends who are in a relationship. Trust me that there is a right time for that. Besides if you are still young, then why not enjoy being young and free. No, don't tell me that no one loves you. You still have your parents and your friends who are always there for you during your darkest and brightest hour and who loves you because of who you are.

Always remember, when you love someone, don't give up on them that easily. It might take a long time but whatever happens make them feel that they are worth the wait. Because there are many things in this world that is indeed worth fighting for. Some people say that it is hard to wait around for something you know might never happen. But remember that it is harder to give up when you know its everthing you want. Be there for them. However, be gentle, dont rush things up. After all, love is a slow dance.

Whatever happens, whatever challenges you face, whatever pain, suffering and anger you feel and whatever life gives you. Always remember to be strong because strong walls shake but never collapse. It is not going to be easy, it is going to be worth it. Keep in mind that when life gives you something that makes you feel afraid, that is actually when life gives you a chance to be brave. Believe that in your journey, you are not alone. God is always there for you to give his hand when you fall. Trust in him and ask for his wisdom and guidance. Lastly, never give up and just keep fighting because your journey doesn't end here yet.

Thank you very much to all my readers and to the person who requested this. Hahaha you know who you are. Hope you like it. God bless to everyone.

Yours FAITHFULLY,
Dr.J

2 comments:

  1. Awww.. So inspiring! Keep it up jeff! :)

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  2. Hahahaha thank you mac, i am happy that you will soon join me in my journey in blogger, expect my full support for your future works.... God bless

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